Thursday, February 28, 2013

Letter From one Brother to another 2.25.13


2.25.13     
 -- Ephraim,
Hows the mission going? I hear you are doing really well and are become an awesome missionary. Eph you always were an example to me and I love you so much. I never really showed how much I loved and appreciated you but know that I do and I cant wait to be your fellow Elder in the misson field. I am working on my papers right now and have a goal to put my papers in before May.
 
I have been going to the temple every Thursday for baptisms for the dead. I started temple prep last week and i start mission prep in March. Today I had my eagle scout board of revue. I am going to be an Eagle Scout!!! I am so excited and glad that I was able to get this done on time.
 
I collected old Cell phones and gave them to a battered women's shelter so that they have access to 911 at an time. High School is going good. I'm passing all my classes and love seminary.
 
I am my seminaries class president. I get the class rolling and start the class. I am now the priest quorum 1st assistant. I Have been praying to be able to fell the spirit more in my life and to be able to recognize it. In seminary Kendell Lee showed a Mormon Message video called Mountain to climb. It talks about over coming our adversity and no matter how difficult our trials our are the lord will never forget us and there is always a way to over come them. I felt the spirit so strong and that was the first time in a long while that I was able to truly feel the spirit. I know that this is the only true church on the face of the earth. I know that Joseph smith is a prophet of the lord. The book of Mormon is the most correct book on the face of the earth. I know that God knows that I know and I cannot deny it. I love the lord and I love my savior. Simple as that.
Love ya Big Bro-
Dallin Dale DeCoursey

Elder D 2.24.13 "Jane and Andrew Baptized"

Dear Family and Friends,

I don't have much time to write letters today. We have a district activity in 1 hour and that should take the rest of pday. I will write more letters next week and will send them out. But right now I don't have time to do so. Maybe I'll write thru out the week at less productive times of the day and send them on Monday. But I will send letters to you soon.

We also have sisters serving in the same area as we are. There are 5 missionaries in Beavercreek. Plus our district is so much fun!! I will tell you more when I write you a letter. But for now I must go. Love you. keep on keeping on!! ha


I am sending a few pictures of Katie's children.  They were baptized on Saturday the 24th of Feb.  I know that my smiles are always weird. Especially at a baptism. I just can't seem to get it right. But I'm working on it. However, I win the hearts of the members by my smile alone so there's some good there.  Jane and Andrew were great to teach and baptize.
 
 


Did I tell you that Jane Cr....., my 3rd baptism (Feb. 16), pretty much adopted Elder Daw, Hogan, and I as her grandchildren? My smile is what really got her attention is what she said.  So some good does come from that problem. 
 

 I have a crazy picture at the Air Force Museum.  I was having fun.

Yes that is .... a very big spider. 
 
Elder Poulsen is training Elder Decker, my new companions.  He is one of the new 18 year old Elders that just came out.  I would love to tell you more about them but I must be going. I love you. 
Elder Eph DeCoursey

Thursday, February 21, 2013

Challenger Feb. 1989 and 2013


Elder and Sister DeCoursey, 
Dad wrote this up for this month.  It is a long one.  But I think the things you read here will be of value.  Dad found these to be of great help and value so many years ago on his mission. 
Love you,
Mom
The Challenger

New Zealand Auckland Mission – February 1989

President Herschel Pedersen

The Prayer of Faith

The Hebrews had been in bondage for 400 years and many believed the prophecies that there would be a deliverer.  In order to prevent the fulfillment of the prophecies the Egyptians commanded the midwives to kill every male child.  Amram and Jochabel were deeply saddened because she was heavy with child.  They besought the Lord God Almighty in mighty prayer with this reasoning: Surely God would have compassion upon those who had not transgressed the laws of His worship and surely He would afford them deliverance from the destruction of their enemies and thereby preserve the lives of their children by His power.

Accordingly their prayer was answered and the Lord stood by Amram during the night and told him He had not forgotten their piety towards Him and that He would reward them as He had their forefathers who had demonstrated similar piety and reverence.  Amram was promised that his son, Moses, would be famous as long as the world should last, along with many other things.

When the baby Moses was about three months old it became increasingly difficult for the parents to conceal the child.  They feared for their lives, knowing that if their male child was discovered not only would he be killed, but the whole family as well.  Their own safety grew more precarious daily, and in prayer they decided that they should put their trust in the Lord.  Amram’s reasoning was that all the things that God had promised in the vision and in His instructions should be taken care of by God.  God had made the promise, so let Him fulfill it.  As a consequence they placed Moses in the ark of reeds and set him upon the river in the trust of God (Antiquities page 76).

Moses reached the time as a prophet where he had led the children of Israel to the shores of the Red Sea.  The Egyptian army was in the rear, the sea was in front of them, and there were mountains on either side.  The masses became terrified, turned on Moses and were about to kill him and return to captivity, blaming him for their plight.  We find the exact words of Moses’ prayer of faith, as recorded by Josepheus:

     “Thou art not ignorant, Oh Lord that it is beyond human strength     and human contrivance to avoid the difficulties we are now under;   but it must be thy work altogether to produce deliverance to this       army, which has left Egypt at thy appointment.  We despair of any        other assistance or contrivance, and have recourse only to that           hope we have in thee; and if there be any method that can promise    us an escape by thy providence, we look up to thee for it.  And   let it come quickly, and manifest thy power to us; and do raise           up this people unto good courage and hope of deliverance, who are         deeply sunk into a desolate state of mind.  We are in a helpless     place, but still it is a place that thou possessest; still the    sea is thine, the mountains also that enclose us are thine; so         that these mountains will open themselves if thou commandest   them, and the sea also, if thou commandest it, will become dry        land.  Nay, we might escape by a flight through the air, if thou         shouldest determine we should have that way of salvation.”

After the prayer Moses turned and smote the sea with the rod, and the waters parted.

When considering the prayer of faith offered by Moses we find that it was the people who despaired, not Moses.  His words exuded confidence and he suggested several ways that the Lord could deliver them, all of which would be unacceptable to human reasoning.  We find that there was a degree of urgency as Moses asked that whatever God did, it must be done quickly.  His prayer voiced the fact that they were destitute of any human logic to bring about their deliverance and that he (Moses) had explicit faith in God as did his father, Amram when he cast him adrift on the river.  These are all ingredients of a prayer of faith.  Probably the greatest reason Moses placed before God as his claim that the prayer be answered was the fact that they had come to those precarious circumstances by the appointment of God and had been obedient and God would take the responsibility for the consequences and therefore deliver them.

As we consider the life we experience as a missionary we can find every part of the prayer of Moses in our circumstances.
 

     1. We arrived here because of our having answered a call from the                                                                         Lord, and we are here at his appointment.

     2. God will reward all those who are diligent and have not      transgressed their devotion and service to Him.

     3. We recognize our own weakness and inability to do some things     in life and are humble enough to accept any help God may choose    to send.

     4. We are at liberty to present our suggestions to Him and even      recognize that there are many ways God can perform that may fit      our present ability to understand or to reason.

     5. We must have complete trust and confidence in the method God      chooses to answer the prayer and accept that decision as binding.

     6. We must then act in faith and perform according to that      decision.

Joshua became the prophet and leader of Israel after the death of Moses and had conquered the city of Jerico.  His next encounter was to conquer the city of Ai, however, his army met with great disaster and failed.  When Joshua saw the great afflictions and forebodings of heaven which had come upon the people as a result of their failure he exercised great boldness and freedom in mighty prayer unto God.  These are the words of his prayer, as recorded in the Antiquities of the Jews, page 144:

     “We are not thus far out of any rashness of our own, as though we    thought ourselves able to subdue this land with our own weapons,        but at the instigation of Moses thy servant for this purpose,   because thou hast promised us, by many signs that thou wouldst make our army always superior in war to our enemies, and    accordingly some success has already attended upon us agreeably      to thy promises; but because we have now unexpectedly been      foiled, and have lost some men out of our army, we are grieved at      it, as fearing what thou hast promised us, and what Moses     foretold us, cannot be depended of by us; and our future      expectation troubles us the more, because we have met with such a      disaster in this our first attempt. But do thou, O Lord, free us     from these suspicions, for thou art able to find a cure for these    disorders, by giving us victory, which will both take away the     grief we are in at present, and prevent our distrust as to what is to come.”

In applying the prayer of faith to our work, we establish a goal of five baptisms monthly and five reactivations monthly [Or whatever your mission has established as mission goals or what you and your companion have established as your goals, the point is to set goals, make a plan to accomplish them and then go to work].  We plan our days and weeks, including an alternative plan if the first fails.  We then present our plan to the Lord along with the goal.  We do our part by being obedient, prepared, prayerful and by occasional fasting.  We then work diligently to perform and accomplish the goals.

About the 10th of the month we analyze our situation and present the case to the Lord.  Then we work hard, expecting an answer and the needed help to reach the goals.  Now if we are not current on the goals and it looks like we may be losing we should experience a feeling of anxiety; that is; we become greatly concerned about not accomplishing the things we set out to do.  This concern can then be compared with the plight that Moses found himself in when trapped against the sea.  We now pray with more fervor and present the case before God with more faith and intensity.

About the 20th of the month we again analyze our goals.  If we are not accomplishing them now, we evaluate our performance.  We assure ourselves that we are worthy, that we have worked hard, and that we have prepared by study and faith.  Our anxiety should then increase and become a much heavier burden and our desire to reach the goal should be a preoccupation.

There are many examples given in the scriptures about the anxiety various prophets experienced before they received the direction and accomplishment they sought (1 Nephi 1:16; 1 Nephi 6:3; Jacob 1:5; Alma 13:27).  In his writing James E. Talmage made this statement: “There is always a feeling of anxiety akin to that of troubled expectancy.”  This great concern we experience is not one of failure but of caring, loving the work of God and becoming one with God in purpose, having our minds on the things of God.  We are then in a position to reason with God.  Present your righteous case before Him.  Explain your worthiness and ask what you can do to become more worthy to develop the prayer of faith to accomplish your goals, both in the mission field and in life.

It is imperative that we develop our spiritual powers and faith before we finish our missions or else we will not be able to have sufficient faith to call down the powers of heaven when more serious problems arise in our lives.  Sooner or later into every life come experiences which bring great anxiety, trauma, fear, and terror.  Often the night of struggle and danger is far advanced before succor appears, and then too often it is mistaken not as help but as another burden to be dealt with.  We find that as our anxiousness for the accomplishment of those goals in the mission field increases and we give heed to the promptings of the Holy Spirit, we increase in faith, confidence and skill and we begin to accomplish all of those goals we established, and it becomes the foundation for all of our prayers to be answered.

When you as missionaries become as concerned and anxious about reaching your goals and baptizing people as you do about letters from home, your money late or trying to get a meal from the members, you will baptize five a month [Or whatever your goal is].

May God bless all of you as you develop the prayer of faith equal to that of Moses.  We commend you and love you and exhort you to greater effort and accomplishment.

Sincerely,

Herschel N. Pedersen, President.

Elder D 2.21.13 "Jane Craig became a member"

Mom,                                 2.21.13
It's been kind of a long week. I'm solely in Beavercreek now without Elder Daw or Elder Hogan (sad face). But I am still in a tri with an elder training one of the first 18 year old elder's in the mission!!!!! Elder Poulsen is training Elder Decker. It is really fun.

Also there are sisters in the ward as well so Beavercreek has 5 missionaries serving there. It really isn't that big but we are making it work.

I've been super stressed this past week. The work is starting to fit together now so there's an upside to that. This Saturday I am baptizing Kate W.......'s (my first baptism) kids, Jane and Andrew. "I'm dunking both of them." I will have 5 baptisms already. I'm shooting for more than 21 before I'm all done. But it's not about the numbers. I should be online on Monday so we will be able to chat back and forth.

I wanted to send you this video.  Haa! It's so funny. I have this video for you from our last district activity. Our District Leader was doing an activity on being prepared with the Book of Mormon. I am racing Elder Hogan who's wearing regular running shoes while I'm in flippers. Well it seems I can't attach it to this email so you will see it when I send it home.

Jane Cr... did become a member of the church. I was so excited I was jumping for joy. She was so golden. I forgot my camera so I didn't have any pictures from the baptism. I can get them from the other missionaries. I would love to tell you more about them but I must be going.

But do please send me more on Lectures on Faith chapter 4.  Loved chapter 3.
I love you,
Elder DeCoursey

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Sister D 2.18.13 "His whole countenance changed"

Home,

Wow, you and dad look so happy in all those pictures. But Dad, your facial hair.... is interesting....? I'm not quite sure to respond to that. But you both look like you had a great time so that's awesome. Louie looks happy as always and keep up the good work both of you boys. I'm sure you will do great in school. Yay passing high school!

Anyways, I have been moved to Dinkytown and it is seriously the best. I have loved being around all of the student here. We go out "contacting" everyday. Which is pretty much just us walking around talking to whoever will talk with us. It has been really interesting learning about others religions and seeing how that faith has helped them in their lives. It has strengthened my faith to know that God has once again but on this earth His church. I have seen many people find so much joy in this gospel that it only makes sense that we would want to share it with everyone that is around us so that they can have that same thing too.

We are teaching quite a few people. Two of them are getting
baptized on March 2nd! Chedan is from India and has the most amazing faith. He is getting his PhD in Computer Science. All of our meetings with him are so great. Mostly because he asks such interesting deep questions that make it a joy to help him find the complete truth. For example, he asked us "why did Jesus have to suffer so much and why did he have to leave us?" These were asked with such sincere intent that the Spirit flooded the room. We were able to share with him the Plan of Salvation and how through Christ's suffering or Atonement he was able to understand everything that we go through. We shared Alma 7 with him and his whole countenance changed. He told us that he has been puzzled over those questions for years and has asked many different churches but no one has told him why until he asked us. He is basically awesome.

Wei is 18 and is from China. She has had experiences with Christian churches before but never our church. She has taught me so much about the lessons that we have to teach her. She is able to come up with answers that make it seem like she has been a member her whole life. I can't really think of an example...just take my word for it.

I'm not planning on being here in Dinkytown after this transfer is over. So, I'm making the most of the time that I have here. So far, it has been a breath of fresh air and I love my new companion. She is from North Carolina and is super great. Her name is Sister Morgan. She has been in Dinkytown for the last six months. Like I said, I'm not planning on staying here which means I will have to pack up my stuff again. :(

Happy Late B-day to Grandma Brown and Aunt Tracy! Love you both!

Love from the slightly frozen,

Sister D

Letter from home 2.18.13

Hello my missionaries,
I've missed hearing from you this week as I'm sure you have missed hearing from me. I did not want to send anything until I knew where you were staying now.

I have a v day bit of something to send you once I hear from you. If I don't hear from you I'll send it to the home office and they can forward it.

Dad and I went to the Elder's quorum prom this weekend and had a great time. You will see Mike Hillman dressed up as cupid. Yes he is a but crazy. This is a body suit that is all mussels.  He wore it at halloween, he was a body builder.  At the end of the night he does take off his wings and "diaper" and streak thru the gym naked. Well the suit is on, but nothing else.  It was so funny. Marissa, his wife was out of town and he came by himself so no one was controlling him, you could say. We went with seven other couples in a stretched hummer limo to dinner and back to the church. We had so much fun, your dad danced and smiled. I really had so much fun.

Landon was recognized for his 3.6 GPA those week.  He gave out a Book of Mormon at school on Thursday.  He and Dallin went to the temple on Thursday morning before school, this was Landon's first time, they get up at 4am to make it there in time.  Landon wore his suit to school and that generated a lot of questions from his friends.  He was able to talk to them about things pretty easy.  He answered all their questions and was able to use Pres. Pedersen's Restoration of the Gospel lesson, that we have been studing.  So it came in really handy. 
Dallin had his first temple prep class yesterday. He is doing well.  He has been really trying to get to a better "place".  He fasted over 24 hours this week and has gone three weeks in a roll to the Thursday morning temple baptisms sessions.  He is studying and praying more and we can see a difference in his whole person.  I am really proud of him trying to become better.  We all fail and have to start again, but starting again is not ever a problem, it is when we feel we can not try that we get lost. 

Today the office is closed. Maybe you won't be able to email home because the libraries are closed. Boy, that will be sad if you can not send an email.   I'll watch to see if you are on email as much as I can, not being in front of my computer will be a bit harder to watch.
Lots of love.
Mom

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Challenger Jan. 1989 and 2013 (sent to them in Jan.)

Elder and Sister DeCoursey,

When we were in Salt Lake City in December we were able to stop by the Pedersen's and visit with them. I found out that they had three daughters out on missions the same time they were out on their mission as Pres. and Sister over the New Zealand, Auckland Mission in 1987-1990.   One of his daughter's was in the England, London South Mission just before I got there.  She went home in Nov of 1988 and I got there in March of 1989. So with you and your brother out and Dallin, likely going to be going out by next fall, we will be similar in that respect. 

Dad and I were talking about his mission, and the amazing experiences he had listening to Pres. and Sister Pedersen.  He also remembered he would receive a monthly newsletter from Pres. Pedersen, called "The Challenger".  Dad was able to find them and we want to send you a copy of them out at the beginning of each month for you.   This is January's newsletter and it could not be more fitting for both of you but especially Amicherie.  Beginning your mission takes some getting use to and the story he shares will help. 

We love you both,
Mom


The Challenger-
New Zealand Auckland Mission,
January 1989 Pres. Herschel N Pedersen

As we go through the experiences of life we find that our lives take drastic turns and shocking experiences are encountered which we never contemplated.  Our carefully planned lives, the hopes and dreams we built are shattered from time to time.  We are led to believe that some things are one way when in actuality they are the opposite.   We wonder and ponder why those relating the experience did not tell the truth. 

A mission is sometimes that way.  We hear the glowing reports of returned missionaries, and their spiritual experiences and feel of the spirit and we desire to serve and experience those same things.  Then when we get to the mission field we find that our conduct is restricted by many rules that we find difficult to accept.  Some seem trivial, uninspired and unreasonable.  We find ourselves being held responsible for records, cleaning the flat, fixing meals, being told to be obedient.  We even have rules as to when to get up and go to bed.  This sudden change in the lives of people is not the easiest thing to adjust to.

As we consider this area and begin a new year, I would like to write about a few experiences that are personal and I hope will give enlightenment, hope and above all a spiritual understanding of some of the reasons “Why?”

When I went on my mission to Denmark I experienced the same frustrations and difficulties you do.  I found that the first few months were an eternal hell as I fixed my meals, made the bed, washed my clothes by hand, and never in that 30 months time did I ride in a car of any kind.  All my missionary work was done on a bike, and when we transferred it was by train or boat from island to island.  The greatest frustration came from tracting six hours everyday and being told where to go and how to get there.  This became a burden and I had a terrible struggle as did my companion in trying to answer all the little questions I could ask.  He became so frustrated with my incessant questions that he finally gave up and said “I do not know why it has to be this way, so just forget it and be obedient and everything will work out.” I was always obedient, but I still wondered why this or that?

Then one day my mind went back to home and what my uncles and relatives would be doing at that time of year.  I remembered the times we had gone to the western desert to catch wild horses.  We would make corals and lock them so the horses could not get into the water holes.  After several days of thirst the horses would be weak, and we would open the gate to the water hole and then at night the horses entered to drink.   A long rope tied to the gate would permit us to close the gate and trap the entire herd.

With the coming of daylight the horses would want to return to the desert in search of food.  In finding no exit and people around they would panic and run against the wire and poles that kept them entrapped.  Many were cut and bruised badly as they fought against the enclosure.  Then we would rope them, tie them down, place a hackamore on them, and then a team of horses would literally drag them from the corral and force them into a truck.  They squealed, whined, kicked, bucked and tried to jump out, but there were secured.

At home we placed them with tame horses and little by little they accepted the feed and water and lost their fear of us.  The wounds healed and they accepted being led around and fed and seemed to enjoy their new life.  Then came the day to begin breaking them.  This brought a closer association with us as we would spend several hours each day with each individual horse. Finally they could be trusted to refrain from bucking and could be used as cow ponies or a cutting horse and became beneficial to the farm. 

Those thoughts had a profound effect on me as I realized that the rules and questions and frustrations I was experiencing were a training and breaking period for me and that the more I fought against the inspiration of the Lord and His ways of doing things the more I would be injured and the longer it would take for my wounds to heal.  This was the day I finally learned to understand John 7:16-17 wherein Christ spoke of knowing if the doctrine, whether it was from God or from man, by doing.  I resolved to do rather than fight against it.  My life was immediately blessed. 

I found that many times in my life I was discouraged and thought there was no way I could succeed but I was always blessed, and gradually I learned that the seed spoken of by Alma in Alma 32 applied to many things, not just faith.  We overcome gradually and it may take weeks, months, and sometimes years before we realize the results we hope for.  
(Skipped area).......................
Paul kicked against the pricks as did Alma and the sons of Mosiah.  Each has had times when they had many problems and fought to overcome.  My favorite happens to be Peter in the 22nd chapter of Luke.  It was the last supper, and Christ was addressing the apostles.  He looked at Peter and said “Simon, Simon, behold, Satan hath desired to have you, that he may sift you as wheat: But I have prayed for thee, that thy faith fail not: and when thou art converted, strengthen thy brethren.”  Peter was chagrined and told the Lord he was ready to die and go to prison for him, upon which the Lord told him that he would deny Him thrice. 

If you can imagine the thoughts that have been in my heart over the many years concerning this scripture.  Peter was the Chief Apostle, the President of the Quorum of the Twelve and was to be the President of the Church.  He had been with Christ on the Mount of Transfiguration and had seen Moses, Elijah, and had witnessed all the miracles, and then to be told, “When thou art converted…” Many of us are in the same position.  We have testimonies; we have witnessed many blessings and evidenced; but somewhere we still struggle as did Peter.  Think how Peter must have felt when he realized that Christ had been crucified and that he was now alone to guide the Church.   Christ was no longer there to give the daily direction; there would be questions and problems, and he was not converted.  

In Chapter 19 of Matthew, the Lord was speaking to the rich man and after the conversation the Apostle then asked, “then who can be saved?”  Christ answered that with men things are sometimes impossible, but with God all things are possible. 

The change in companionship, working with missionaries from many parts of the world, disciplining yourselves in areas never before necessary are all shock and designed to help you learn about yourself and what you have the potential for.  Peter never knew how to be an effective missionary and had little success until he understood on the Day of Pentecost when he and John baptized 3000 souls that day.

During the year 1989 (or for us 2013) let each labor to understand him or herself and recognize the power of godliness in each of us.  We commend you and love you.   It is a joy to see each of you grow spiritually and we know that you are all growing in the Lord.  Do not despair because of the trials or difficulties, and do not feel failure or quilt; but read Alma 32:42-43 and know this, that we commend you to God and know that many of you have already reached great heights and will continue doing so. 
You will all succeed, and we hope and pray that God will bless all of us as we continue. 
Sincerely,
Herschel N Pedersen.